2012年5月30日星期三

Finding a Good Partner to Marry

Hi Jane,
I am glad to hear that you are ready to marry. How to make a right match is very important. As I have been married for 5 years, I'd like to give you some suggestion.
Of course, first of all, both of you should be attractive with each other. You love him, and he loves you. where there is love, there is attraction. You'd like to live together and have a family. And you both would like to know more about your future life. Do you love him? If you do, congratulations!
But love can not consist on for a long time without life. During your life, what do you think is the most important thing? How do you know that person you love would like to be your family member and to take his responsibilities? So a good partner also is a responsible and reliable person. When you have problems or your family takes some trouble, he must be the first person you think and stand out to help you. He likes to help you as you like to help him. If he is reliable, he can try his best to set a good financial condition for his wife and family. By the way, it'd better one of you can manage money as well as the whole family. And don't let your loved family fall into bad situation.
Right person also should be an honest and faithful person, as he can't always tell you lies. White lies are beautiful, but it's a terrible life when you surrendered by lies. Be honest to you and your family.
Then if he is a very patient person, it's very good. He must be an easygoing and would like to share some housework. And you will get easy to your endless housework. Can he love children? If  he says yes, it's perfect! Be a good father means he would like to help you to take care of children. you will have less mother jobs. Usually he has a normal family and brought up in a good condition. At least, he will care the family. See his family and watch whether his family is a family can love each other and care about each other. And whether he can be easygoing guy will be better for you to deal with your neighbour.
Actually, all this suggestion I told you just want you be a happy women to get married. And also you should not just ask your partner to be how good a person he is. Have a family, have more responsibility. Wish you a good luck!

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